How To Not Get Married After Saying That You Would | Carlos Cardenas
It’s important that you truly believe that you are going to marry the love of your life. Call her the love of your life. Make sure she knows that’s who she is. Refer to the marriage frequently. Say things like “when we’re married-this,” and “after the wedding-that.”
Remember to think that you’re better than most people because you’re in a relationship that’s going somewhere. This over confidence will lead to a false sense of security, which is key for this process to continue.
Here, start asking yourself questions. You’re unsure about something, what is it?
Never mind. It’s probably not important.
Once your eyes become cloudy, start lying. Lie about things you have no reason to lie about. Make up events, places, even people. Try to leave clues (plot holes, mismatched names and dates) so as to not get caught, but to make your partner believe that there is something to catch.